Thu Jul 17 2025, by Tyler Gardner
The Real Reason People Stay in Jobs They Hate
I'm Tyler, a former financial advisor and portfolio manager. If any of this is helpful, sign up for my free newsletter by clicking the link in my bio.
1. Tying Identity to Work
We often tie our identity to our work. Quitting a toxic job doesn't feel like merely changing roles; it feels like erasing a piece of who we are.
2. Fear of Failure
Most people do not fear going broke; they fear looking like they failed. This fear keeps them stuck, seeking applause they don’t even want anymore.
3. Cost vs. Salary
The job might pay well, but consider the cost: your energy, relationships, and time. That’s not a paycheck—that’s a trade-off. If your job is costing you your life, it’s too expensive, no matter what the salary.
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