Tue Aug 19 2025, by Tyler Gardner

MarriageFinancial PlanningRelationship AdvicePersonal FinanceCommunication

3 Signs You're Not Ready to Get Married

I'm Tyler, a former financial advisor and portfolio manager. I make financial content for free, so you don't have to pay for it.

1. You’ve Never Talked About Money

You’ve debated city versus country living, having kids versus being DINKs, and whether a hot dog is a sandwich. But heaven forbid you ask if they'd want a joint account or separate accounts!

2. You Plan to Figure It Out as You Go

Fun fact: no, you won’t. Going into a marriage without a plan regarding finances is a recipe for disaster.

3. Refusing to Sign a Prenup

You won't sign a prenup because you don’t want to bring a contract into the marriage. Remember, marriage itself is already a contract! It’s not just about finding the one; it’s about finding the person you still want to have coffee with after they buy a jet ski without discussing it with you.

Conclusion

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